Left Behind

I wonder what death is. Is it the final time limit for our lives or is it superimposed? Is it a lesson for the ones left behind or a lesson that the one who has to go teaches themselves. A day comes and that person that you love so much is not around anymore. But then? Where do they keep existing after they disappear from your life? Where are they now? Why? How? You are left behind with a mind full of questions like these. Nothing can be done, they are already with us anyhow, is the only way to think. How much of it is real and how much of it is make belief? What do you think? Is there proof? No. Then are we choosing a way of belief for ourselves? A big YES. There are those that choose to end the journey themselves and those that come to an involuntary end. What do you think is the difference? The certain common point of the two is that they won't be able to be a part of our lives in a physical form. What if you had a chance to save them? You can't because once the idea is created and a person sets it to motion then it is already in the territory of the inevitable. We cannot prevent what is destined to happen just like how an arrow that leaves its bow isn't stoppable because the most convenient path of causality is already schemed and is in motion. After what's done is done we can only attend to what can be done. If this had happened then this would happen way of thinking will not move you beyond the point of guilt. This is so because death or something that personal to someone else is never directly related to you. What really sad is the all that is left unsaid and undone. Precisely these situations are the ones that are related to you. But what about being unable to ask someone to stay? If you ever have a chance you should take it when you can. If you mute your heart and listen to your brain, don't. If you do, then sorrow and guilt will dominate your soul. Just be aware of your ego and wait. After a while the truth will come out, plain as day. In the light of that you will either soften the words you are about to speak or you will learn how compassionate you really are. At the end of it perhaps the one that wants to leave will leave however you will be "left behind" with a different conscience. But the one who leaves, aren't they the ones that are the real left behinds for you? Because you will be set free from them. Maybe you can never know what they took away but you will know your own actualization on events and people. Isn’t "I wish’s the worst? The anger of being unable to say or saying it is an unsatisfactory manner? The regret that is felt for the circumstances couldn't have been different. The only moment we have is NOW. What can be accomplished lies only in the now? Leave everything behind and just do what you are supposed to do in this moment without expecting anything in return. Be sure that the invisible return, in its own time closet will come back to you. Your mood and overall energy will stem from events and then in turn create the situations that arise in the future. Because of "existence in energy" never fear losing someone because this fear can ally itself with the spirit energy of the other person and then will put you on the first step of the chain that will end with you losing them. If you can realize this it will be preventable however if you can't, then those seeds will be already planted and the end will be an inevitable separation. All of this is about matching on energy level explained in a lighter way. It works in every situation in life. Try and see.