Understanding and Forgiveness

First and foremost, one most know themselves. Who they are? What they harbor inside, the relation between themselves and the events that befall on them, in short, on must live aware. One must know the reasons why they are unhappy or happy. What brings them to this world and precisely to this situation? The past and the blueprint of it, the judgments or those core values that the person holds on to, thinking that they are the ones that make them who they are. Whatever happens to us, it happens so that we may attain those goals we set for ourselves. Even if we don't realize it ourselves, each event is guidance to us from the universe and a shortcut for us on our journey to the core of everything that there ever is. What's important is to realize this if we can't comprehend it, then the live will keep try to push us harder and we'll end up deeming it cruel. We most look inward first. Let's say that you judged someone, maybe once, maybe many times. The judgment sentence you form is always "I would never....do/say/act, this could never happen to me and even if it did I would never." and alike. Whatever you judge, life will test you by setting it in front of you so that you can experience what you were so sure that you will never experience because everything in this life is so that humans can comprehend that vast compassion mechanism, born from the nothingness itself. At that point your outlook will change and a state of compassion will emerge. Forgiveness is its first step because first one needs to forgive themselves for doing something that they thought would never do. Only then can one truly understand another person and forgive them. Never judge an event that you don't want it to befall on you. It's best to say everything is possible in this life and move on and don't forget, the beauty of this life is hidden in its variety. If new experiences cease to arrive, what will be the point of life? Life is journey of exploration and your own existence is the cornerstone of it. This is why although the center and the ending of everyone’s journey is the same; it is a different one for everybody. Crossroads emerge from different dreams of exploration. The wisdom to be attained is always the same knowledge. Maybe it would be right to frame it such; the knowledge to be attained is that everyone is but energy. What I mean to explain is that one day; everyone will understand that they are actually only energy surrounded by rings of exterior events created by the core of their being. What we need to learn is that sooner or later everyone will acquire the truth that they inquire. What's important is to know and to set forth difficult paths on the way of living. This is only attainable by living an aware life. First realize your real goal and then whisper to yourself how you wish it to come true. Our golden key should be always listening to ourselves.